You never know who you’re going to meet at a party, or what their hidden talents might be.
It’s always interesting to hear some people’s stories after they learn I’m a musician. Most will tell me they used to play an instrument in high school or college. Others will say they have no musical abilities, but wish they did. Then there are others who used to play, still have their instrument, and would like to get back into it. Beyond that, there are the few, the proud, the currently performing musicians.
I was at a friend’s house for the annual Thanksgiving feast, which in this case means dining with 25-35 other folks. One of their traditions, as with many of you I’m sure, is to go around the table before dinner and say what you are thankful for. As is my penchant, I spoke briefly about my gratitude for those who are still able to make music without electronic assistance. (Disclaimer: I have absolutely nothing against electronic music or electronic instruments – I just happen to have a soft spot for folks who can play traditional winds, keyboard, and percussion.)
This opened the door for later conversations. What did I learn tonight? Check it out…
David – Piano
I didn’t get to speak to David at length, but as far as I can remember, he’s a lifelong pianist who is recovering from thumb surgery. He was wearing a soft cast on his right hand, and told us how he is thankful that (through various connections) he’s received piano sheet music from a British (I believe) composer whose work he admires. He can’t wait to get back to the piano with full use of both hands.
Ramiro – Trumpet
This young man is ex-military, and using the G.I. bill to help get him through school for a second (non-music) degree. He’s done some professional bugling and other trumpet work, so we had lots to talk about. After some time away from it, he wants to get back into music, especially playing in a jazz band. I gave him all the encouragement I could, and told a few stories about my European jazz tours and the BSO Academy.
Adam – Drums
Adam is still in school and, although he’d like to return to his drum set, it’s already been a long while, and he’s making his way through his studies, which take lots of time. I don’t remember what degree he’s aiming for, but he told me that by the time he’d have enough free time to get back to it, he’d probably just get a new set. Likely years down the road. He’s also on a step show team (at least until he graduates), and those are always cool to watch.
So, while I may not have hit the “mother lode” of community musicians, it was satisfying to speak with people at various spots in their musical lives, and to meet these members of the brotherhood (or sisterhood, or people-hood if you want) of non-professional music makers.
You never know where we’ll show up next!
Where’s the most unusual place you’ve met a musician?
How many folks do you know who continue playing after graduating?
Do they play more than one instrument?
Have you ever been inspired to pick up your old horn/sticks/keyboard?